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John was first introduced to foster care at nine years old.
The police
came for him after a neighbor called about hearing his mother
screaming at him and the child begging for help. John spent
most of his nine years afraid of the severe beatings his mother
would inflict upon him.
Foster
care didn't prove much better.
He was
a quiet child but prone to sudden outbursts of anger when
faced with a new situation or one he didn't understand. And
he didn't understand a lot.
John went
through about a dozen foster homes until he finally ended
up back in the Children's Shelter at 16. He was sexually assaulted
by one of the older kids there and ran away to avoid more
encounters. He lived many months on the streets going from
one odd job to another, sometimes dealing drugs or stealing
to survive.
He said
he met an older couple in the park one day who coaxed his
story out of him. After a few visits they invited him to live
with them. Then they encouraged him to pursue a GED and later
go to college. They even helped him find scholarships and
loans to put him through school.
John admits
that if it had not been for that one couple who offered him
a safe home and encouraged and loved him unconditionally,
he would have been among the one in five foster kids who emancipate
and end up in prison.
He still
considers this elderly couple his family. He said that at
that time in his life, they were the only people who ever
told him they loved him - the only ones who ever let him know
they believed in him.
Today,
John is a mentor to young men and is a respected executive
in the financial community.
He beat
the odds.
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